Sex — of any kind, whether we’re talking about intercourse, oral sex, manual sex, masturbation, or any other sex — not only doesn’t feel the same way for all people, it often doesn’t even feel the same way for one person from day-to-day, partner to partner, or activity to activity.
God made sex a good thing and the best kind is having sex with someone you love and would give everything too, something you love more than the most prize possession you have. It is the most intense feeling in the world with the one person you feel safe with and that you can share your deepest emotions with. It is like plugging into the best feeling place in the universe, having an amazing connection with a living breathing soul, and a deep and profoundly moving experience. It is about being closer to the one you love, than anyone else ever can as you enter the sacred place of your love.
But do ever wish you and your partner felt closer? Want to relight the fires of love, morning, noon and night? Just adopt gratitude as your attitude.
Showing gratitude not only will make your partner want to please you, but it can make others like you better, too. Openly grateful people are seen as more generous and helpful by friends and family. Who wouldn’t like that?
Beyond supercharging your love life, feeling thankful also can boost your health. Turns out that if you keep a gratitude journal, you’re also likely to exercise more, have fewer aches and pains, and feel more optimistic about life than if you ramble on about things that drive you crazy or don’t matter much. Even better, 15 minutes of daily gratitude can dramatically decrease stress hormones in your body.
A new study suggests small thoughtful gestures and a little everyday gratitude toward one’s partner can yield a great deal of happiness and help strengthen relationships. Examples may include: picking up your partner’s favorite coffee, preparing a celebratory dinner, or taking the kids out to give the other partner some quiet time. By extending positive emotions and gratitude to romantic partners, this can increase the benefit of positive thinking tenfold.
So, today I am grateful for the feelings of gratitude and generosity I have in solidifying the relationships with people I care about. And the emotional intimacy I have when a sense of oneness is reached with my partner, as two are now one, and I am bonded with the one person I care about more than anyone else.
This was delicious to read. Such good advice! Inspiring.
Thank you for your kind comment. I truly believe if more of us can love our partner by being more grateful, this will lead us toward becoming better people, and by doing so, all of us will produce enough positive energy in the universe to create amazing changes on our planet for generations to come!