Day 362 – The Angels Among Us

December 28 – A 10-year-old boy walked into a Kmart store in San Mateo on Wednesday afternoon, placed $20 on the counter and said he wanted to pay down a stranger’s layaway account.

Sameera Chatfield, the supervisor who helped the young “layaway angel,” an anonymous shopper who pays off layaways for strangers — a recent trend occurring at Kmart stores nationwide — said the boy walked in with his mom and specifically requested an account that included toys for boys.

“It was perfect,” she said. “I wish he had stayed around for a few minutes, because the people whose account he paid for came in.”

She said the family smiled when she told them that the “angel” who paid down their account was a 10-year-old boy.

The boy is one of several such do-gooders Chatfield has helped since Friday, when people started coming in and offering to pay down layaways.

“It has been absolutely fabulous,” Chatfield said. “It makes me want to go out and do something for someone else.”

The contagious good will, which has spread to Kmart stores around the country, appears to have its roots at a store in Michigan, where an anonymous woman reportedly paid about $500 toward the layaway accounts of strangers earlier this month.

The “angels” vary in age and ethnicity, but most request to remain anonymous and that their money go toward paying off accounts that include toys or children’s clothes. On Friday morning, a man in his 30s walked into a Kmart in Hayward with $10,000 in cash.

“He came in and said, ‘I heard what’s going on in other states.’ I’d like to do it,” said John Pawlik, 52, a manager at the Hayward Kmart. He said the man paid $9,800 toward layaway accounts and donated the remaining $200 to the Salvation Army.

Pawlik said in another instance, a couple came in and said they wanted to pay off an account because they don’t have children of their own.

“I think it’s great,” Pawlik said. “It puts your faith back in how you feel about people.”

Michelle Caldwell, 30, said that in the 10 years she has worked at the Kmart in San Leandro, she has not seen anything like this. Since Sunday, Caldwell said she has helped about five people who offered to pay down layaways.

“It’s just really touching,” she said. “If I had the money, I would be doing it myself too.”

John Garcia, a 44-year-old assistant manager at the Kmart in Redwood City, said that when sales associates inform the lucky customers that an anonymous person has paid down their accounts, most of the time their reaction is tearful.

“It’s almost like they’re in shock,” he said. “Like they’ve won the lottery. And in those instances, they have.”

Garcia said the trend is improving morale among sales associates and benefiting Bay Area families who are in need at this time of year.

“I’ve seen lots of demonstrations of goodwill towards people, but never one that gained such momentum,” he said. “It’s something that’s very special that’s happening.”

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Now these are the kind of stories we should be reading and hearing about instead of all the negatives things we have no control over. These uplifting stories display the goodness that lies in the human heart. Giving selflessly is one of the greatest rewards in life.

The “Layaway Angels” can help spread a powerful message of love and gratitude across our nation. People helping people!  Isn’t that what life is all about?

Whenever I see someone in trouble, I help them if I am able to. We must all do that on a regular basis. This country needs to help one another and bring back caring for each other.

What a beautiful thing to happen for those less fortunate. The happiness that perfect strangers feel as a result of your giving is truly priceless.

In 2012, let’s make a commitment to be more kind and loving and giving to each fellow-man.

We should all find a way to do something nice for each other and someone and it doesn’t have to include money. Just think what a great country this could be if everyone did something nice no matter what color or race you helped that day.

Remember, we are all-powerful spirit beings having a journey though this Earth.

So the only thing we can do is love one another and put our differences aside

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Day 361 – Remembering the Year of 2011

2011 was a year of extremes.  From the tragedy of Japan’s devastating earthquake and tsunami, to the pageantry of a British Royal wedding; from the wave of revolutionary change in Egypt, Tunisia and Libya, to the solemn commemoration that took place on September 11, we reflect on a passing year filled with emotion, knowing the world will never be the same.

We’re reminded that life is fragile. We can be here today, and gone the next. What we need to do is be grateful for what we have now and embrace those that you love. Stop worrying about the little things that appear so large when in reality they are nothing but a tiny speck of dust that really isn’t as important as life itself.

Let us be thankful and focus on making progress in a world that is full of Life. A life that we can choose not to give up, to survive, and believe in a power that we already possess to be the best that we can be on this planet.

Open the doors of today before tomorrow is gone.

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Day 360 – Thank You to the People of the World

Thank you’ – two words that can mean a lot to so many people.

Thank you may mean a simple gesture of appreciation. It can also convey feelings of happiness and wonder to the other person. Whether the words are a complete thank you or just a simple thanks,  these words can pack a lot of punch and bring out a lot of smiles from the young and old alike.

In honor of the words “thank you”, I want to give my thanks, to you, my blog readers, for your loving support that has propelled me to continue writing this blog.

As I reach the end of writing this yearlong blog, I want to take a moment to say Thank You to you in these various languages to the people of the world:

Africa – dankie

Albanian – Faleminderit

Bahasa Indonesia / Malay – Terima Kasih

Chinese (Mandarin) – Xie Xie or Xie’ Xie’ Ni

Chinese (Hokkien – Taiwan) – Kam Sia

Danish – Tak

Dutch – Dank U

Filipino / Tagalog – Salamat

Filipino / Ilocano – Agyamanak

French – Merci

Ghana, West Africa – Medasi

German – Danke (Dahnk-uh)

Greek – Efxaristo / Efharisto

Hawaiian – Mahalo

Hebrew – Toda

Hindi (an Indian language) – Dhanyavad or Sukriya

Hungarian – Köszönöm

Italian – grazie / molte grazie

Irish – Go raibh maith agat (for one person); Go raibh maith agaibh (for many persons)

Japanese – dōmo arigatō

Javanese (Central Java – Indonesia) – matur nuwun

Korean – gahm-sah-hahm-ni-da

Laos – Khwap jai / Khob chai lai lai

Northern Ireland – Cheers Mate

Portuguese  – Obrigado / Obrigada

Russian – spasiba

Scottish Gaelic – Tapadh Leat

Serbian – Svala

Slovak – Dakujem

Spanish – Gracias

Sundanese (West Java – Indonesia) – hatur nuhun

Swahili – Asante

Thai – khob-kun-ka (if the speaker is a woman); khob-kun-krub

Vietnamese – Cám ơn

Welsh – Diolch

and finally,

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Day 359 – A Gratitude Story (The Seed in the Mud)

“The Seed in the Mud, [a story] by Paul Berchtold. Used by permission of the author. This story is found at Thank-Your-Stars.com.”

Once upon a time there was a seed buried in the mud.

It was in dark blackness. It was cold and wet. It shivered. It was just plain no fun.

It was icky. It was dirty. It was muddy. It was mucky. It was stuck in the mud.

How it got there is a little 3 sentence story.

One nice breezy Fall day, it had fallen on the ground. Then it rained a little. And a deer came along and stepped on it and pushed it deep in the mud.

Life just wasn’t fair. It was all alone. If only it had fallen like the other seeds in the grass, or on the log over there, or at least not been stepped on.

But what the little seed did not see was

  • the mouse that ate the seeds in the grass
  • and the bird that ate the seeds on the log
  • and the chipmunk that gathered the seeds on the ground to store and eat all winter long.

It couldn’t see this because it was stuck in the mud. It didn’t know how lucky it was.

Now besides being squished tight in the mud, it was also locked in its shell. It tried to get out of its terrible predicament, but the Fall days got shorter and shorter. It got colder and colder too. It had no strength to get out of its shell. The mud was frozen solid, the deep snow covered it. It went through a terribly cold and dark winter.

Finally, after what seemed forever, slowly the days grew a little longer, a little warmer. The seed had work to do. It began to grow.

The water in the mud had softened its shell. Still, how hard it was to get out of its shell ! It had to exert energy like never before. It struggled and struggled. Finally it broke free.

Then it used more energy to go not up, but down, struggling to send a tiny little root through that compacted mud — that terribly icky place. It needed something to tightly hold on to, because……..

…now it had to struggle yet again with great effort to send a tiny little shoot to the light above — through all that icky mud. Finally it was free. It reached the warm sunlight.

You would think its troubles were over. Not so fast. In a whole year it grew only a few inches, while the other plants grew by leaps and bounds, as if to mock the little seed. Every fall it lost its leaves. In winter it barely survived, covered with snow. And as it got a little taller, it had to go through windstorms and blizzards.

But one thing was peculiar. Even while it slowly grew up to the sunny blue sky, it never forgot its roots. It had the wisdom to keep growing its roots deeper and deeper in the mud.

In fact, it used every wind storm, every blizzard, every shaking, every vibration to wiggle its roots deeper and deeper into the black icky mud.

It knew the importance of a solid foundation, because it always remembered where it came from, how it had been protected and helped by the mud.

The years rolled on, and the seasons too. Each summer it so slowly but surely grew. Each winter it became a little tougher and stronger. It had little joys and little sorrows throughout its life like all of us do.

Then came the fiercest of all storms. The wind blew so violently this way and that. Trees all around were dashed to the ground, broken, uprooted, a jangled mess.

After the devastation, the sun shone once again. To be sure, it didn’t look so pretty, some leaves were missing, in fact, quite a few, but that would soon be remedied.

Because it hadn’t forgotten its roots as a seed in the mud, it stood there in all its glory. It had become the mighty oak tree.

Moral of the story: Be grateful for who you are and what you are becoming. Each one of us is like a seed in the mud ready to grow into that mighty oak tree.

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Day 358 – Gratitude and Marriage

Why do people marry?

The short answer is that they are in love.

Marriage affords endless opportunities to practice loving. But because of the intimacy of the relationship, personal flaws are revealed, that we can slip into negativity, forgetting what it was like to initially fall in love, and what it is now to live in love.

The virtue of Gratitude can help us remember.

But why is it so hard for us to practice an attitude of gratitude and positivity—especially in our marriages?

One reason may be that we often dismiss the positive aspects of our marriages while vividly remembering the negative ones.

The marriage fights we have are often about who is going to meet the “needs” of the other person. In reality the only “needs” a person has is the need for food, water and their health. Outside of this everything else is “wants” and desires and yearnings. When “wants” or “what we would like to happen or see” masquerade as “needs” it is dishonest, demanding and can do a relationship a lot damage.

To end an argument and prevent others occurring one must be willing to stop the fight over “needs” and think about what you can bring the relationship to make it go better.

Start by focusing more on what you do have in your relationship and what you love and appreciate about your partner. When couples express genuine gratitude for each other, they feel more loving and accepting.

Notice when your spouse does or says something nice to you and notice when you say or do something nice for them. Now think about it. Let yourself feel good about the positive feeling you have for him or her.

Any relationship gets its very best chance of success when it is at it’s most personal and appreciative. We must resist the temptation to reduce someone to the sum total of their faults and try keep the lines of communication open even at the most difficult of times.

Perhaps your partner is always busy at work and you don’t feel they value you. If so, then you have work to do, learning to value yourself. By working on your own self-esteem and insecurities you will become that more attractive to your partner. After all, they fell in love with you because of the positive qualities they saw in you – find these again in yourself, embrace them with your whole being and start giving them once again.

Attitude is everything in marriage. The attitude that you and your spouse choose to have, on a daily basis, can and will greatly impact the life you two enjoy together.  Negative attitudes can create a tremendous weight on your marriage, while a consistently positive attitude can help uplift your marriage — putting everything in its real perspective.

The effect of practicing gratitude in marriage has the effect of shifting our perspective, enlarging our horizons, and deepening our love, not only for our spouse but for the wider community.

What qualities of your spouse are you most grateful for? Share your lists with each other.

Does your spouse have an annoying behavior or habit that you’ve magnified out of proportion? Make an effort over time to let it go.

Whether or not you realized it before, gratitude really is love. Sometimes it’s a great big OMG kind of love. Other times it’s a small simple love. But, no matter what, gratefulness is love.

Which brings me back to the first question I asked?

Why do people marry?

If falling in love with someone is a wonderful, intense experience, then why do so married couples forget this?

Just remember what this love felt like.

It is like having butterflies in your stomach when your lover touches you.

It is like a flower blossoming in your heart, as you can feel each petal opening.

It is being able to smile all the time, sometimes for no apparent reason at all.

It is like a jigsaw puzzle when you have found that long, lost piece that was missing from your life.

It is a shoulder to cry on without question.

It is looking into their eyes and seeing your own reflection.

It is a feeling of bliss when you kiss.

Gratitude is a universal kind of love, an appreciative kind of love. It’s something deep and meaningful and important. When you love someone, you cannot help but incorporate gratitude into that love.

I would like to end this blog post with a song for the love of my love. A woman, I truly adore and would love to spend the rest of my life with. This one’s for you baby!

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Day 357 – Grateful For A Magical Place Called Disneyland

Try to imagine a world without Walt Disney. Without Disneyland, Disneyworld, and all things Disney.  It would be pretty hard to do. For Disney was a man who transformed the entertainment industry, into what we know today. He pioneered the fields of animation, and found new ways to teach, and educate.

Walt’s optimism came from his unique ability to see the entire picture. His views and visions, came from the fond memory of yesteryear, and persistence for the future.

More than 50 years ago, Walt Disney unveiled his dream for a themed “amusement park” that would be unlike any other.

But early in Walt Disney’s career, he wasn’t always successful.

Check out these 10 setbacks that Walt Disney had, some were financial nightmares that lost him millions of dollars:

1) Walt formed his first animation company in Kansas City in 1921. He made a deal with a distribution company in New York, in which he would ship them his cartoons and get paid six months down the road. Flushed with success, he began to experiment with new storytelling techniques, his costs went up and then the distributor went bankrupt. He was forced to dissolve his company and at one point could not pay his rent and was surviving by eating dog food.

2) Walt created a mildly successful cartoon character in 1926 called Oswald the Rabbit. When he tried to negotiate with his distributor, Universal Studios, for better rates for each cartoon, he was informed that Universal had obtained ownership of the Oswald character and they had hired Disney’s artists out from under him.

3) When Walt tried to get MGM studios to distribute Mickey Mouse in 1927 he was told that the idea would never work– a giant mouse on the screen would terrify women.

4) The Three Little Pigs was rejected by distributors in 1933 because it only had four characters, it was felt at that time that cartoons should have as many figures on the screen as possible. It later became very successful and played at one theater so long that the poster outside featured the pigs with long white beards.

5) Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs was sneak previewed to College Students in 1937 who left halfway during the film causing Disney great despair. It turned out the students had to leave early because of dorm curfew.

6) Pinocchio in 1940 became extra expensive because Walt shut down the production to make the puppet more sympathetic than the lying juvenile delinquent as presented in the original Carlo Collodi story. He also resurrected a minor character, an unnamed cricket who tried to tell Pinocchio the difference between right and wrong until the puppet killed him with the mallet. Excited by the development of Jiminy Cricket plus the revamped, misguided rather than rotten Pinocchio, Walt poured extra money into the film’s special effects and it ended up losing a million dollars in its first release.

7) For the premiere of Pinocchio Walt hired 11 midgets, dressed them up like the little puppet and put them on top of Radio City Music Hall in New York with a full day’s supply of food and wine. The idea was they would wave hello to the little children entering into the theater. By the middle of the hot afternoon, there were 11 drunken naked midgets running around the top of the marquee, screaming obscenities at the crowd below. The most embarrassed people were the police who had to climb up ladders and take the little fellows off in pillowcases.

8) Walt never lived to see Fantasia become a success. 1940 audiences were put off by its lack of a story. Also the final scene, The Night On Bald Mountain sequence with the devil damning the souls of the dead, was considered unfit for children.

9) In 1942, Walt was in attendance for the premiere of Bambi. In the dramatic scene where Bambi’s mother died, Bambi was shown wandering through the meadow shouting,’ Mother! Where are you, Mother?’ A teenage girl seated in the balcony shouted out, ‘ Here I am Bambi!’ The audience broke into laughter except for the red-faced Walt who concluded correctly that war-time was not the best time to release a film about the love-life of a deer.

10) The sentimental Pollyanna in 1960 made Walt cry at the studio screening but failed at the box office. Walt concluded that the title was off-putting for young boys.

Walt was human, he suffered through many fits of anger and depression through his many trials. Yet he learned from each setback, and continued to take even bigger risks which combined with the wisdom that experiencing failure can provide, led to fabulous financial rewards.

One of his bigger risks would become known as Disneyland. Here is the story on how Walt Disney started to create in his mind the “Happiest Place on Earth”.

When they were little, Walt Disney would take his two young daughters, Diane and Sharon, to play at the carousel at Griffith Park in Los Angeles every Sunday. While his daughters enjoyed their repeated rides, Disney sat on park benches with the other parents who had nothing to do but watch. It was on these Sunday excursions that Walt Disney began to dream of an activity park that had things for both children and parents to do.

At first, Disney envisioned an 8-acre park which would be located near his Burbank studios and be called, “Mickey Mouse Park.” However, as Disney began to plan themed areas, he quickly realized that 8-acres would be way too small for his vision.

Although World War II and other projects put Disney’s theme park on the back burner for many years, Disney continued to dream about his future park. In 1953, Walt Disney was finally ready to start on what would become known as Disneyland.

The first part of the project was to find a location. Disney hired the Stanford Research Institute to find an appropriate location that consisted of at least 100-acres, was located near Los Angeles, and could be reached by a freeway. The company found for Disney a 160-acre orange orchard in Anaheim, California.

Next came finding funding. While Walt Disney put up much of his own money to make his dream a reality, he didn’t have enough personal money to complete the project. Disney then contacted financiers to help. But however much Walt Disney was enthralled with the theme park idea, the financiers he approached were not. Many of the financiers could not envision the monetary rewards of a place of dreams. To gain financial support for his project, Disney turned to the new medium of television. Disney made a plan with ABC: ABC would help finance the park if Disney would produce a television show on their channel. The program Walt created was called “Disneyland” and showed previews of the different themed areas in the new, upcoming park.

On July 21, 1954, construction on the park began. It was a momentous undertaking to build Main Street, Adventureland, Frontierland, Fantasyland, and Tomorrowland in only one year. The total cost of building Disneyland would be $17 million.

On July 17, 1955, 6,000 by-invitation-only guests were invited for a special preview of Disneyland before it opened to the public the following day. Unfortunately, 22,000 extra people arrived with counterfeit tickets.

Besides the huge numbers of extra people on this first day, many other things went wrong. Included in the problems were a heat wave that made the temperature unusually and unbearably hot, a plumber’s strike meant only a few of the water fountains were functional, women’s shoes sunk into still soft asphalt which had been laid the night before, and a gas leak caused several of the themed areas to be closed temporarily.

Despite these initial setbacks, Disneyland opened to the public on July 18, 1955, with an entrance fee of $1. Over the decades, Disneyland has added attractions and opened the imaginations of millions of children.What was true when Walt Disney stated it during the opening ceremonies in 1995 still stands true today: “To all who come to this happy place – welcome. Disneyland is your land. Here age relives fond memories of the past and here youth may savor the challenge and promise of the future. Disneyland is dedicated to the ideals, the dreams, and the hard facts that have created America… with the hope that it will be a source of joy and inspiration to all the world. Thank you.”

And the place has been the source of much laughter, more than a few tears, shrieks of joy and knowing smiles for millions of people the world over.

I love the pure magical escapism of it. You arrive in a place that a Castle, pirates, haunted mansions and flying elephants exist that allow to escape reality and enter fantasy. The feeling of happiness inside make you feel like a kid again at any age. It makes me feel happy inside, this magical place where you can get  excited to take your picture with Mickey.

It brings back happy childhood memories when my parents brought me to this place, and when I in turn brought my kids.

Walt Disney is one of many inspirational stories from people who have achieved great things by following their dreams no matter what. Disney faced numerous rejections yet refused to listen to the negative people who said, “you can’t”. Thank you Walt Disney for believing in your dream and leaving us with a legacy that will last forever.

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Day 356 – Let Your Light Shine

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear
is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our
darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be
brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not
to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve
the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that
other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to
shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of
God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in
everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give
other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from
our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

~ Marianne Williamson

How are you letting your light shine? OR, How do you plan on letting your light shine this coming year?

As I sit and ponder why, I can’t help but wonder why not, when I see a great world, an amazing world right before my eyes. People travel at the speed of light, only to find they have missed a stop light called Life.

Everyday people, doing everyday things making the world a better place, that’s the goal in the end. No color black or white, does happiness not visit everyday and every night.

For when we have our eyes closed, we can see the light! The light that shines within us and allows us to stay connected with unconditional love that lasts forever.

This is a pivotal point in my life to become who I meant to be. To reach, with the greatest of stretches, to the almighty, and allow the greatness that lies within me to come out.

Let 2012 be the year that you let your light shine!

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